I attended my son’s basketball games and (to his embarrassment) I frequently loudly yelled encouragement from the stands. During a heated battle with a particular team, a parent was ejected from the game. No, it was not me! The parent in question was screaming taunts and jeers at the ref. I knew this unruly father proclaimed himself as a believer. I hung my head in shame for the dishonor he brought to our Heavenly Father.
WHO CARRIES YOU AWAY?
Some people might say, “Oh, it was just a sports game. People just get carried away. They were just in the moment.” Let me pose the question, “Who carries you away?” I don’t think the Holy Spirit performed the carrying in that game.
A HOT MIC MOMENT
Heaven’s hot mic was turned on. A “hot mic” is a microphone turned on and it broadcasts publicly something considered private. All the angels heard the hot mic recording of that parent’s foul and abusive language.
FOUL AND ABUSIVE LANGUAGE
Scripture is clear. Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful…And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. (Ephesians 4:29-32)The Apostle Paul speaks plainly. He refers to words that are coarse, obscene and not acceptable in polite speech. Words you don’t want on permanent record and caught on a hot mic. Things you would not say it if Jesus was right in the room. However, Jesus is right in the room!!!! Just because you can’t see Him, He still hears us and knows our hearts. Heaven’s hot mic is live.
POLITE SUBSTITUTIONS FOR BAD WORDS
As nice believers, we may adopt what we consider polite substitutions for abusive or four-letter words. Once I was on a mission trip. One of my co-workers constantly and habitually used the expression “freaking”. I finally pulled him aside and said, “Every time you say that word with that tone of voice, I hear its equivalent echoing from my own past. Could you please not say it? I want to put my painful sins in the rear mirror.”
BROTHERHOOD OF FOUL AND ABUSE
Foul language and abusive language are brothers. Abuse is name calling and ridicule. Language considered insulting, offensive, disrespectful, and intended to cause pain.
Have I ever called someone “stupid”, “worthless”, or an “idiot”? Yes, guilty as charged.
I watch the news and can’t believe the behaviors of individuals. Reacting to a sound bite, I yell at the TV, calling that person stupid and an idiot. Jesus warned: If you are even angry with someone, you are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone, you are in danger of the fires of hell. (Matthew 5:22) It is okay to disagree with someone, but using abusive language is clearly not acceptable for Heaven’s hot mic.
DON’T GRIVE THE HOLY SPIRIT
Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own. Don’t be the parent ranting from the basketball stands. Refuse to be the one who thinks substituting a four-letter word with an equivalent is a sound idea. Never, never be the child of God who ridicules and disrespects individuals. They called Jesus every name in the book; cursed him right and left, but He always honored God in His speech.
He calls believers His dear children. Who do you belong to? What is heaven recording on your hot mic?