Last week, my wife got very upset with me. After she was done ‘instructing” me about what I did wrong, I gave up and didn’t say a word in response. Of course, she came back with her usual response: “Words, use your words, what are you saving them for?” I really didn’t have any words to share (at least none that were a reasonable excuse), and so once again I was guilty of not communicating.
Once again, my lack of words didn’t accomplish anything, unlike somebody else’s words. Yeah, you know Who I’m talking about: God. He is the great Communicator. God uses words. God said, “Let there be light.” Thus, light was created. And when He used the words “Let there be an expanse between the waters”, guess what, there was an expanse between the waters. God created everything in the world by speaking; His words are incredibly powerful. (Genesis 1:3-8)
SURPRISE! GOD USES WORDS!
Words are used to both create and to destroy, as when God said to Adam not to eat of the tree of knowledge. “For when you eat of it you will surely die” (Genesis 3:1-19). Adam ate, and death descended upon creation.`
POWER OF WORDS
What flows out of our mouths can create wonderful relationships, as when a person piles on praise to a friend. Words can also destroy, as when someone shares criticism and shame with a young person who is simply trying to please. We are all responsible for the words we use and exactly what words we choose. Are our words building people up, or are we tearing people down?
WORDS ABOUT WORDS
Several proverbs are rich in ways that will help us to communicate with others. Solomon writes, “When there are many words, transgression and offense are unavoidable, but he who controls his lips and keeps thoughtful silence is wise.” (Proverbs 10:19). Let’s face it, some people talk too much. Others don’t say enough (yes, I’m guilty).
Words can help to heal a broken heart. They can encourage someone who is depressed and lonely. Words can be used to unify or decimate a relationship. “The mouth of the righteous flows with [skillful and godly] wisdom, but the perverted tongue will be cut out. The lips of the righteous know (speak) what is acceptable, but the mouth of the wicked knows (speaks) what is perverted (twisted). (Proverbs 10:31-32).
POWER OF YOUR WORDS
When speaking to others, think about what you are saying. Are you building others up or are you tearing them down? Are you encouraging someone with your words, or are you just causing doubt to keep them from doing what God wants them to do? You may not be able to create the sun, the wind, or the earth with your words, but you can help people to see Jesus through the kind and loving words of forgiveness and hope. So, the next time your spouse says, “Use your words”, go ahead (hopefully with wisdom). Make someone’s day!